SPWC

Definitely one of my top favorites from the Connect album!

I just love this song!!!

I have a question that I just seem to get out of my head when I hear this song: In the second verse, is that actually Shim singing? It just sounds way to high to be him.

Love Emma's vocals on this one.

Definitely one of the best on Connect, and Emma's vocals are a big reason why.

I love this song, especially now. It has a lot more meaning to me now that I've been through a breakup with an extremely toxic person. It was easy to love him when he didn't act like himself, but when he was Dan again, it started to get harder and harder to fake it. He became abusive, by no means physically, but when you're told everything you love, any of your opinions or ideas, or favorite things are stupid day in and day out, it definitely verges on verbally abusive status. That feels like swallowing glass, when every part of you gets ripped to shreds.

And 'disappointment is cruel, but hope can be crueler'....nooooooooo kidding. This is perfect. One day he'd do something horrible, but then next he'd say he would try to change. HA! Lies. And nothing feels worse than being given that hope, just to have it dashed on.

I love this song so much now. Not that I didn't before, but it just has so much more meaning now.

I feel for you Cora! It sucks being in a situation like that. I'm happy to hear you were strong enough to walk away!

I've been in two relationships with guys who messed me up mentally. One guy had one set of rules for him and a different set of rules for me. He could say stuff to me and if I got mad or hurt I was stupid for taking offence, but if I said the exact same thing to him I was the meanest person ever. Sometimes I felt like he wanted to be with me mostly because he wanted to be able to show people he had a girlfriend, rather than because he actually liked me. Then at other times he could be really sweet.

The other guy loved an idea he had of me, so he never bothered to find out who I really was. One time when I was so mad at him that I had to go outside to cool off, he came out after a few minutes and found me. He told me he was relieved that I was out there being mad, because he had been worried I'd gone to the toilet and was having a big dump. Really?? How is angry better than performing a natural body function? Ever?!?

So happy that I was strong enough to break up with them! Especially since shortly after breaking up with the second guy, I met Robert (who is now my husband). He is the most amazing guy I've ever met and I love him more than he could ever understand. After nine years together I'm still so thankful to have him in my life

Douchecanoes, what an awesome word! Hope you don't mind, but I'm totally going to start using that

It's amazing how music can help fans navigate life. That's one of the reason I specifically love Mark, Emma's and Hooks work so much.